FRACTURE

There are basically two words that we use to describe, or I should say, define social connections: Introvert and Extrovert. How people tend to “define” these two categories goes like this: introverts are shy, and extroverts are talkative.

But I think introverts recharge through reflection and solitude, directing attention inward to thoughts and feelings, while extroverts gain energy from external social interactions and outward action.

Also, between introvert and extrovert lies the Ambivert. Ambiverts enjoy social time but need solitude to recharge, adapting flexibly—chatty in familiar groups, reflective when alone. They make up roughly half the population.

In this society, introverts are often seen as socially disconnected. Some introverts may be detached from social relationships, but they’re more deeply connected to their own souls—which is more important in my opinion.

They’re more likely to feel lonely and ignored because they don’t feel much comfort being around people. But society doesn’t like this exception. That’s why it came up with this fancy word “introvert” to define them as totally new creatures, and make them feel more isolated.

All introverts are not the same—they carry different life stories. Some of them trust people so easily, while others will never believe a single thing you say. Some of them open the gate of their trust like the open sky, while others shut it down. Some of them will tell you everything about their life, while some others won’t even move their lips. Most introverts are curious to know the facts, but will never utter a single question. Most introverts genuinely want to feel loved, since they were the ignored part of the family.

They gaze at the clouds thinking if death will melt them into a white sponge. They sit alone wondering if someday they too will find a friend who will eagerly wait for their unspoken sentences. They create random questions in their mind and try to find answers. They stare at animals thinking those might be the only creatures they can believe.

And when life changes, when introverts find you as someone they truly love, they’ll never let you go away—since you become their only safe place. They might analyze you first, but don’t be annoyed. They’re not distant, rather they’re careful. They just don’t want to lose someone they’d give their entire life to. They’re terrified of ever letting you slip away.